Thursday, June 26, 2025

* unwritten, unspoken contracts

alternative title: in-sin-u-ation

obviously, a contract that is unwritten & unspoken 
can be mis-perceived by those who enter into it.

in the game of mating & dating & marriage, men and women could do better... but that would take most of the romance out of it.  romance adds to the mystery (as each partner can use his/her imagine-in-ing skills to conject meaning into what his/her partner thinks, says, and does).

romance also leads to the unrealistic expectations that, when not met, result in heartbreak, regret, pain, anger and revenge.

even with the plethora of mating & dating information on platforms like youtube... for most couples, it's still all smoke & mirrors.

what is important to determine, gentlemen, is your risk (in a day & age when a miss interpretation can lead to much more than in-sin-u-ation).  

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