* men aren't stupid

...not all of them.

ladies, men aren't buying the b.s. anymore.  we don't believe the "keep her happy" bullsh--.  

we aren't waiting-around to be your sloppy-seconds.  we don't need you.  we don't need the drama, and we are no longer willing to pursue the insane.  we're not having it.

the good girls out there will take the prize(s).

the social-media queens will get their short-term, and their alpha beta-tized men... and then bitch constantly (to anyone who might listen).

we aren't listening, anymore.

the men (who are paying-attention) 
are living their own lives 
in their own way 
on their own time and 
by their own rules.  

unbutton another button and hike the skirt up a tad... but we aren't having it.

correction: we aren't having it for the long-term. we aren't committing to it. 

gentlemen: don't commit (in writing, by vow, or publicly).

just be committed to what you are committed to.     

your friends have never needed (nor wanted) a ring -- or a "friending" or a wedding or a commitment.  your friends don't shame you.

-the beginning.