b128 (10.4-2.2025): what is toxic, really?

what is toxic, really?
by shesa toxic    
 
what is toxic, really?
what is toxic, blame
what is toxic, surely
what is toxic, shame
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·       it is quite likely that your ‘masculine’ behavior is natural, and the shaming & blaming of you (for being natural) is toxic.
 
when toxicity is in the eye of the bee-holder, anyone can label any behavior of y/ours as ‘toxic’ if they feel that it is toxic – to them.  if they get stung, the problem, my brothers, is you.
 
to me, if a woman wears seductive clothing and acts in a seductive manner (with the intention of getting something/anything other than seduced), she is being toxic.
 
to me, if anyone shames you for being a man who behaves like a natural man (e.g. adventurous, attracted to women, aggressive, strong, muscular, passionate, driven, etc., etc.)…
 
…if anyone shames you for that, then the shamer is being toxic.
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martino, j. (10-4-2.2025). what is toxic, really? book 128: last night. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us