* gentlemen...

1. do not yearn for the 9s & 10s.  if you ever date one, you will hate the process.

2. beware of the 5s & 6s that think of themselves as 8s & 9s.  think: what does she (really... besides just being female) bring to the table?

3. would you chase a male friend if (a) you had to always pay his way, (b) you had to listen to his emotional negativity, (c) you had to spend time watching him scroll on his cellphone, and/or (d) he didn't want you to have any other friends?  think about that.

4. cultivate hobbies, interests.  get fit.  enjoy clean-eating.  join groups of like-minded souls.

* meet the woman of your eye-candy dreams by having fun with people who like the things that you like. become a better man, and your dream woman will find you! :)