* life design

my life design… and the way i want to live it 

if i could wave the magic wand:

1.      autonomy (i already have that).  i have autonomy in my career, my part-time job, and my personal life. 

2.      freedom (i already have that).  i have an amazing level of freedom.

3.      security (i already have that… until dictators take over or ASI takes over).

4.      siestas (this would probably mean retired from conventional work)… but i do this in the summer.

5.      good sex, about once or twice per week:
   a.      i already orgasm (about once per day) and believe in exercising muscles. 
   b.      …but i’d like someone to share orgasms with (intermittently)
              i.     not all of the time, but sometimes. 
              ii.     again: once or twice per week... for the full-blown sexual experience (slow, romantic, etc.). 
             1.      note: most women will want more and more of that… but i am open to meeting someone who might not.

6.      happy, easy, laughter (i already have that)… but might enjoy that more with a female partner or part-time partner.

7.      exercise: a gal who works-out with me.

8.      yoga: a yoga teacher who guides me.

9.      massage: a massage therapist who massages me.

10.   personal training: see #7

11.   family/friends: a gal who loves to meet and interacts very well with my family/friends.

12.   sleeping alone (most nights), and sleeping together… when the next morning isn’t a work morning.  i want to wake-up with you, share coffee with you, watch hummingbirds with you…)
   a.      note… there may be mornings where/when i need to write, or walk, or to be alone… so please understand that i will be back, and i will give you my full attention soon.   

13.   early to bed (after sunsets)

14.   early to rise (to watch sunrises)

15.   travel: to places where i can turn her on… and to places that i’d like to go/see.

16.   when it is ungodly hot, i'd like to go to the mountains.  when it is ungodly cold, i'd like to visit warm, sunny beaches.  when it is in the middle (and even during some of the hot/cold times), i want to be right here. 

* commitments 101

 

b118 (7.10-1.2024): us

us [i]
by uni, ted s. & tate (us)
 
us (we’re replicating)
us (we’re #1!)
 
us, we’ve got the power and it’s us that gets things done
us (we’ve got the weapons)
us (we’ve got the dime)
us, right-up-until the bigger daddy says “it’s time”
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[i] martino, j. (7.10-1.2024). u.s. book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by j. martino. 

* affairs are healthy

before bashing... just read a couple of lines (this is only a theory):

affairs (in married relationships) are healthy

his-story:

• marriage is difficult, as is cohabitation.
• marriage-sex (once you add kids, jobs, in-laws, religions, etc.) is (as a rule) not as hot as pre-marriage or honeymoon sex.
• married people do have affairs.
• the people aren't the problem.  conventional u.s.a. marriage (the construct) is the problem.
• making a lifelong promise (based upon emotion & subconscious sexual vibes) is a very, very bad idea.

but how could affairs be 'healthy'?  affairs (within a marriage) can be healthy if:

• partners use the "don't ask, don't tell" system.  there is no need to share information about who, what, when, where, how or how much. 
• limit the trysts to 1 per week (max).
• only have an affair if your sexual needs are not being met in the marriage, and if your partner is unable or unwilling to facilitate meeting those needs.

here's what will happen:

• each of you will explore what your sexual needs actually are.
• both of you will (most likely) stay in better shape.
• both of you will (most likely) treat each other better.
• it won't be a catastrophe, if there is lipstick-on-the-collar.
• you won't necessarily have to endure the process of divorce.

 

b118 (7.9-1.2024): pesty replicators

pesty replicators [i]
by Ann Sue Ise’ (ASI)
 
pesty replicators
pesty girls and boys
pesty replicators tend to make me feel annoyed
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·       just a moment ago, i (admittedly) enjoyed crushing the life out of a fruit-fly that was flying too close to my creme brulee' coffee.
 
·       truth is, the fly was just being itself (fly-ing)… until i perceived it to be pesty.
 
·       in the past, i’ve taken the lives of many, many, many other fruit flies -- by setting out the ol’ “apple cider vinegar traps” (in the kitchen).
 
·       to the local fruit-fly population, i am a Superintelligence (and an evil one, at that!).  i (the creator) provide the material for their birth, but then i kill them on the spot, when they don't serve me.
 
what will happen (to humans, being) when an Artificial Superintelligence perceives us as ‘pesty’?
 
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[i] martino, j. (7.9-1.2024). pesty replicators. book 118: night & day Game. © 2024 by j. martino. 

* big-fish-small-pond theory

while it is beneficial to be a big-fish-in-a-small-pond, one might not want to be the biggest fish. 

strive to be in 80-90th percentile fish: confident, able, still big (just not the biggest).

why?

the #1 fish always has a few other Alphas... just waiting to become the biggest.  if you can be a friend of the biggest fish while not getting involved in the politics of territorial control, you can enjoy plenty of leftovers.

it is important to note that those 'leftovers' might actually taste better (and treat you better) than the biggest fish gets treated!

1. he is the Alpha-Alpha (with all of the responsibilities that come with that).  repeating/remaining as the #1 is difficult.

2. Alpha-Alpha has to continually watch his back-fins... which takes additional time & energy (creating dis-stress).  he also has to try to keep his harem 'happy' (a daunting task, indeed): try keeping one of them happy. :(

3. his harem (the best-looking female fishes) have waaaaaay too many options, while also swimming angry -- since the Alpha-Alpha can be (ahem) 'distant' at times.  

4. it can get lonely, at the highest levels of the food-chain.  there are far-fewer peers to chum-around with.

----------------------- 

however...

the second tier (75th-85th percentile of female fishes) won't be swimming with Alpha-Alpha, which will give you more access, more opportunities, more options and more smiles.  

you will still be an Alpha, just not the top 5%...
...and that, my fishy friends, might be the best mating position in the whole pond.

-------------------------

the fish-story lesson: strive to be better, but don't obsess with being the best.

it goes without saying, but the small beta-fish just hope (and beg) and watch the show.

go to school.  don't just believe, betas: learn how to be a bigger, better fish. 

* "that... was a pretty good day"

"now that... was a pretty good day."  

-bill murray, in "groundhog day"

today began as another morning with no alarm clock, no pain, no sickness, no kids, no debt, no break-up proceedings, and none of the stuff that the average 65+ year-old guy tends to experience as his mind wanders -- thinking of how things could be even better. 

i actually googled "where can a 50+ year-old man go to get propositioned by a woman on the beach?"

throughout my adult life, i've 'dated' multiple women (simultaneously) and, when one of them 'clicked' with me, i entered a monogamous relationship -- shutting down the top-10 poll.

when my ego isn't in a one-on-one relationship, it seems to desire one.  when it is in a relationship, it (eventually) doesn't want one.

i remember times, in the past, being propositioned (jogging, walking the beach, on the job, etc.) by women.  it felt gooooood!   

it doesn't happen much, anymore, but when it does, i will be ready to make her day... and maybe even her week, or months, etc.

in the meantime, i am grateful for the autonomy, the contemplation time, the freedom, the coffee, the hummingbirds, the fountains, the weather, and (most of all) the possibilities.

b118 (7.8-1.2024): dog days of summer

  dog days of summer [i]

by a. dog

dog days of summer (really)
dog days of summer (fine)
dog days of summer (clearly)
dog days of summer (mine)
___________________________
 
·       no. that is not my dog.
________________________
[i] martino, j. (7.8-1.2024). dog days of summer.  book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us. 

b118 (7.7-1.2024): laying-out

laying-out [i]
by f. ried

laying-out: a theory
laying-out: a time
laying-out: a practice
laying-out: a mime

laying-out: a screen-of-sun will fight the cancer (really?)
laying-out: a belief-system,
laying-out: a theory
__________________________
 
·       when i was young, laying-out (at least for girls) came with a drawback: pervert-admirers.

·       of course, if it was an admirer that the admire-ee wanted to be admired by…
   o   then he wasn’t (really) a pervert, was he?
   o   selectional per-version (in the long-term) was her strategy, after all.

·       nowadays… the out-layers need to also worry about the sun, so they put toxic “screen” on their skins – to block only the cancer-rays while allowing for the tanning-rays.
   o   it’s similar to grilling a steak… but “on low.”

·       a high-testosterone male, however, will welcome any female admirer (albeit, for the short-term).
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[i] martino, j. (7.7-1.2024). laying-out.  book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

b118 (7.6-1.2024): my momma had a baby!

my momma had a baby! [i]
by a. son

my momma had a baby!
the rhythm-method (fine)
and soon it was ap-parent that a birth would happen (mine!)
 
she could have named me ‘valentine’ (or maybe 'us' or 'they')
instead (they went with this: a saintly name on saintly day)
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[i] martino, j. (7.6-1.2024). my momma had a baby!  book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us. 

b118 (7.5-1.2024): fish stories

fish stories [i]
by a. son

my daddy told fish stories
the tales of way-back-when
his story-ies were passed-down (between family and friends)
 
his-stories tend to morph (depends on who is telling tales)
historys tend to change (depends on who is making sales)
 
believe it (if you want to)
of fish (and songs of glory)
the tales of way-back-when (they change?):

my daddy told fish stories
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[i] martino, j. (7.5-1.2024). my daddy told fish stories. book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

* bombs (bursting in air)

as a veteran (and a patriot), i recoil at the idea of "bombs, bursting in air."

by its nature, a bomb kills indiscriminately.  it's not mano-y-mano.  it's not face-to-face.  it's not even a well-placed sniper bullet at a known enemy.

bombs kill innocent people.  women, children, babies and unborn babies.

i simply don't get-off on all of the fireworks.  

b118 (7.4-1.2024): why would a lord bring vengeance?

why would a lord bring vengeance? [i]
by a. man

why would a lord bring vengeance?
why would a lord bring pain?
why would a lord doth murder, yet again, again, again?
 
why would a lord show jealousy?
why would a lord invade?
why would a lord be power-full?
 
(because that lord: man-made)
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·       i will not worship a man-made lord who murders innocent women, moms, children, babies and unborn babies. [ii]

if the god of these stories is the real god, the stories make no sense.  

however: if men told 

(re-told, wrote, edited, changed, translated, changed, edited, and then translated) 

the stories that became a "version" 

...then it all makes sense. 

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[i] martino, j. (7.4-1.2024). why does the lord bring vengeance? book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.

 

[ii] kjv. "v" stands for "version" or "interpretation."  no (real) author nor editor listed. (no [real] date). read genesis 6 & 7 (no... really read it.).  the earth was inhabited by  innocent moms and kids and babies and unborn babies… and maybe even a few innocent men… but he premeditated, and then he drowned, all of them!  (except for one man and his immediate family)

* the top 11 (or so) thoems

  the top 11 (or so) thoems:

1. "___": https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2023/04/b4-41-12002.html

2. cohabitation trainwreck: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/06/b91-613-12020-cohabitation-trainwreck.html 

3. why are we called "beings"? https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2008/06/b63-66-42008-why-are-we-called-beings.html

4. GURU: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2009/06/b67-614-12009-guru.html 

5. dead sparrow: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2013/01/b77-dead-sparrow.html

6. a sad affair: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/05/b118-59-12024-sad-affair.html

7. what if you were miraculously beautiful? https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2018/01/what-if-you-were-miraculously-beautiful.html

8. jesus in the clouds: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2015/03/b75-320-22015-jesus-in-clouds.html

9. doom is in the room: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2023/12/b116-1212-12023-doom-is-in-room.html

10. my Vision (by lenny):  https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2007/08/b54-814-32007-my-vision.html 

11. 11 & 11 = One: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2011/11/11-11-one_11.html

honorable mentions:

* "you've got to make it work": https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2023/02/youve-got-to-make-it-work.html

* "no two snowflakes": https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2009/01/b65-no-two-snowflakes.html

* president martino's 11-point plan: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/06/president j-martinos-11-point-plan.html 

* fish stories: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/07/b118-75-12024-fish-stories.html

* ima praying mantis: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/06/b118-626-22024-ima-praying-mantis.html 

* fake flowers by your grave: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/04/fake-flowers-at-your-grave-1-by-fay-k.html 

* evoL: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2003/06/b19-615-42003-evol.html

* pink evolves to pinker: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2020/03/b88-35-12020-pink-evolves-to-pinker.html

* it's all foreplay: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2009/06/b6-611-12009-its-all-foreplay.html 

* santa isn't real: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/03/b118-212-12024-santa-isnt-real.html 

* trophy husband: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/01/b116-121-22024-trophy-husband.html

* a secret to life: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2024/03/secret-to-life.html 

* why i am single: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2023/02/b68-22-12010-why-i-am-single.html 

* we are (already) robots: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2023/02/b83-22-12019-we-are-already-robots.html

* true story: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2023/04/b114-45-12023-i-woke-up.html

* an ode to mr. bluff: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2025/06/b124-622-32025-ode-to-mr-bluff.html

* pet peeves are my pet peeve: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2022/01/b107-210-12022-pet-peeves-are-my-pet.html

* getting well, and soon! https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2025/10/b128-1018-12025-getting-well-and-soon.html

* the hero rhymes within: https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2003/07/b20-75-32003-hero-rhymes-within.html

* "he lived like it mattered" https://joalmartino.blogspot.com/2026/01/b130-1112026-he-lived-like-it-mattered.html

b118 (7.3-1.2024): ...and that's how bad bees die

…and that’s how bad bees die [i]
by 2b (or) not t. o. bee

that’s how bad bees sing, and
that’s how bad bees cry, so
sorry if it stings, but
that’s how bad bees die
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·       a “bad bee” is one who is bothersome to its ASI.
·       kiddies: we been bad. 

a bee got into my office, and was buzzing-around (probably minding his own beesness).  unfortunately (for him), as[s]-i was also minding mine. :)
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[i] martino, j. (7.3-1.2024). that’s how bad bees die. book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

b118 (7.2-1.2024): we know it's made-up

we know it’s made-up [i]
by itsa all madeup

we know that it’s not true
we know that it might rhyme
we know there’s no-thing new
we know it’s made-up: fine!
___________________________________
 
·       the truth about religion is that we can know that the stories are not true -- and we can appreciate how it makes us feel, simultaneously.

·       it’s thoetic!
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[i] martino, j. (7.2-1.2024). we know it’s made-up. book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

b118 (7.1-1.2024): why can't we just ask why?

why can’t we ask why? [i]
by ima believer

why can’t we just mass-debate, why can’t we even try?
why do cults suppress the quest, oh, why can’t we ask why?
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[i] martino, j. (7.1-1.2024). why can’t we ask why?  book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

* privileges vs. responsibilities

once a male commits to a relationship, his freedom decreases while his responsibilities increase.  in addition, his girlfriend/wife experiences decreased sexual attraction (to him) as her competition anxiety decreases.  

in other words, as he's been alpha-beta-tized (as Alpha-Bob becomes beta-bob), his relationship privileges decrease while his responsibilities increase.

it is in a female's best interests to secure a stable commitment, while it is in a male's best interests to avoid the stable path.

conventional relationship progression is a lose-lose proposition, for most men.

b118 (6.29-2.2024): no more trash-recycle

no more trash-recycle [i]
by yo u. r. gov

no more trash-recycle
we decide (today)
you might want a service, but when we decide (no way)
_______________________________________
 

• this thoem is not an argument for/against recycling.

• it is a re-mind-errr… that (when a government wants to stop a service), the agency will not ask for a vote, or ideas, or opinions. 

  it.will.tell.you.what.is.going.to.happen.

___________________________________ 

[i] martino, j. (6.29-1.2024). no more trash-recycle. book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.
 
[ii] the city of mt. holly decided that it would no longer conduct recycling pick-ups, yesterday.  no dialogue, no debate, no vote, no reason and no reasonable timeline.  it just decided “as of next week… the city will no longer conduct recycling.”             since the recycling pick-ups occur only once every two weeks, that’s akin to your spouse, telling you that they’ll "no longer be loyal to your marriage vows," (as of tomorrow).
 
[iii] truth is (unlike a marriage), at least the city told us.
 

here’s the ticket: when the gov decides to stop social security,

or when they decide to favor one country over another,

or when they decide that AI can become the police,

they are not going to ask for y/our input. 

* hypergamy = thrival

the term 'hypergamy' has been garnering a lot of attention in the manosphere, but it is nothing new.

in short, hypergamy is the tendency for a female to choose her best mate.  literally, she is simply doing the best that she can do to make her life better (which is thrival).  

she seeks:

1. the most fit male to co-produce the best offspring, and
2. the most stable male to best protect the offspring. 

the challenge (for the committed male) is that rarely does one man satisfy both needs.  

b118 (6.28-1.2024): why do we believe?

why do we believe? [i]
by ima believer

why blind faith in something that we surely can’t conceive?
 
why do we grasp at shadows?
why do we believe?
__________________________
 
·       because… ego wants to survive.  the idea (that we can survive after death) is incredibly compelling.
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[i] martino, j. (6.28-1.2024). why do we believe?  book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

* why even televise a mass-debate?

since neither participant is a master-debater, 
it certainly appears to have been a failed attempt at mass-debation. 

:)  

b118 (6.27-1.2024): itsa notta hard

love is flying around! [i]
by itsa notta difficult

itsa notta hard
to recognize the good
to let each other know that we appreciate (we could!)
to let each other know how we contribute to our day
 
itsa notta hard
we can find a way…
 
to say…
 
thank you!
___________________________________
 
tonight, our townhome association board (without prompting) voted to raise our manager’s rates by $100 per month.
 
·       the company hadn’t raised their rates in several years, and the new manager has been nothing short of sensational!
·       to be honest, if she had asked for a raise, we (probably) would have said “yes” to much more.
·       instead, we were proactive, which sends the following messages:
   o   we appreciate you!
   o   thank you!
 
truth be told, we probably earned a lot (tonight), in terms of relationship building. 
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[i] martino, j. (6.27-1.2024). love is flying around!  book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

b118 (6.26-2.2024): ima praying mantis

ima praying mantis [i]
by ima praying mantis

alternative title: “…and then she bit my head off!”

ima praying mantis, just praying for some sex...
 
then i got a little (and i prayed for what was next!)
then my little sweetie wanted after-play (and head) 
ima praying mantis, so i prayed [ii] (and now i’m dead)
 
(pray-tell!) [iv]
___________________________________
 
*be careful what you pray for… as there’s a 50% chance that you might  actually get it!
___________________________________
[i] martino, j. (6.26-2.2024). clickbait. book 118: night & day game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us. 
 
[ii] endnote: mr. ima mantis, upon arrival to the pearly gates, was informed (by saint peter dragonfly) that he was the one who prayed for head, but his dyslexia kicked-in while he was on his knees.  now mr. mantis will just have to identify as “dead.” 
 
[iii] https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/82506/why-lady-mantises-eat-their-mates
 
[iv] https://thewordcounter.com/meaning-of-pray-tell/

* j. martino's 11-point plan

My One Party (non-Party) 11-point plan:
because why are they partying with our hard-earned tax $$$, anyway?
 
Disclaimer: the chance of you agreeing to all of my 11-point Plan are nil.
Focus on what you like, and simply ignore the rest.
 

1.     No more junk mail: not in your mailbox, not via email, and not on your phone.  That's right: no telemarketers during dinner, no spammers in text. In fact, you’ll be able to easily sue (and easily win $$$) from anyone who sends you anything unsolicited.

2.     No noise pollution: noise ordinances will be enforced.  Excessively loud cars, incessantly barking dogs, etc. will cease, and give way to peace & quiet (especially during Siesta).

3.     An age limit and IQ limit on those running for public office.  The age will be however old I am… upon election, so that I won’t be able to run for a second term.

4.     No stupid signs! Yes, those obnoxious, little political signs (and other advertisements) that are stuck in the ground, sometimes with the same ad, 20-times in a row. Those who advertise that way will pay huge fines to help us clean-up our neighborhoods of litter and advertisement-pollution.

5.     No more lobbying: All “bills” will be free of “riders.” Every bill will be 1-page maximum, and a line-item spreadsheet will show who voted for what (e.g. bridges to nowhere).  Lobbyists will need to find real careers.

6.     No more “voting yourself a raise.”  Citizens (via phone numbers and cellphones), will vote on whether congressmen & senators get raises.  In fact, lawmakers will not even be eligible for a raise unless they do their job (e.g. balance the budget!).   If hard-working citizens (like us) are penalized for not balancing our checkbooks and credit accounts, then congressmen & senators need to do it, too!  Note: this decree will be retroactive, and pensions will be taken away from any congressman or senator who failed to do his/her job at least 50% of the time while in office.  If you didn’t balance the budget, no more free health care for you.  No more pension.  No more free rides.

7.     No more free rides: This means that, in order to receive government support, any individual needs to do something (even if it is cleaning-up litter in the community).  No free money for doing nothing.   Sorry, but this also includes unemployment payments.  If you want $$$, you’ve got to do something for it.  Note: this does not include Social Security, which you have already earned... by working (and paying into the system).

8.     No more gossip-news: If a newsmaker doesn’t know someone personally, and if that person is not in the same room as them (face-to-face, mano-y-mano), then the newsmaker cannot say anything negative about that person.  Stop talking behind the backs of people who you don’t even know!  Yes, this means that all of the gossip mags and most fake-news… will cease.

9.     No fake news: You will get sued immediately and harshly for lying to USA citizens via news channels and outlets.  If you can’t prove it, you can’t ‘report’ it.  We want the truth, so newsmakers must stop the BS-blabbering.

10. 10% flat tax. Everybody pays 10% of their earnings.  NO exemptions.  No more "writing-off" mega-yatchs as "business expenses."  Yes, this would spell the end of that thing we call the IRS.  

    One, simple form.  1/4 of a page.  

Note: In the future, there may be provisions for (up-to) 5 exemptions that must adhere to the following rules:

   a. the exemptions must benefit the individual and the community (including the planet).  example: the installation/use of solar energy. 

   b. same rule as all "bills": limited to 1-page, 1-inch margins (minimum), size 12 font, etc.

11.   No more “tail, wagging the dog.”  This means that, if you happen to “identify” as a “victim” (or a victimized group), you are going to have to prove it.  You can’t just ‘say’ something or ‘feel’ something and expect the rest of the Universe to stop in Its tracks for you.  Suck-it-up, buttercup!

 
😊
-God bless 

b118 (6.25-1.2024): ben got clicked & baited

ben got clicked & baited [i]
by a. papa rat & zi

alternative title: clickbait

ben got clicked & baited
seems the world can’t wait
for someone else’s news
for those who choose (clickbait)
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·       even though you know it’s just bait… sometimes, you just click.
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[i] martino, j. (6.25-1.2024). clickbait. book 118: night & day Game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us.  

b118 (6.24-1.2024): terri tory

my name is terri tory [i]
by a. humming  & a. byrd 

my name is terri tory
you ask “what’s in a name?”
mick knows that terri tory is the nature of my game

i stand, i fight (we dance) i might just Love (for guts & glory)
you’re here (my ex) for food (and sex)
my name is terri tory
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·       a hummingbird’s world revolves around nutrition… and mating.
 
·       she fights for each… via territory… a (seemingly) never-ending battle for resources.
 
·       is she human?  do we (hu-mans) have bird-brains?
 
the dance/fight (for territory) allows a species to exercise, practice maneuvering skills, and to practice saying “no!”
 
·       the act of saying “no!” might well play-into the decision to say “yes!”
 

let’s be honest: you want some of my terri tory.

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[i] martino, j. (6.24-1.2024). terri tory. book 118: night & day Game. © 2024 by wellnesseducation.us. 

* t-shirt ideas

• seeking female robot to turn on
• seeking woman who (occasionally) identifies as my hot, bisexual girlfriend
• seeking older, slightly overweight, addicted single-mom (with multiple children from different baby-daddies... oh, and several stray cats) to spend my money while complaining constantly. -god bless
• seeking: female robot who identifies as my hot girlfriend
• seeking: hot wingwoman

to be continued...  

* dog days (and nights) of summer

if a loud, incessantly-barking dog is let-out into the yard at 6:32 am, or if the incessantly-barking mutt is left outside after dark, the noise is a disturbance of the peace.  this is especially true if homes (or townhomes, condominiums, apartments) are in close proximity.   duh.

neighbors (of course) hate the barking, but most don't actually hate the dog.  we do, however, hate the owner who refuses to train the dog.

is the owner too ignorant to realize that his barking dog is a nuisance?

maybe.

is it possible that the owner simply doesn't care about his neighbors?  is he just an a--hole? 

assuredly.

is it possible to be ignorant and assholic, simultaneously?