once a male commits to a relationship, his freedom decreases while his responsibilities increase. in addition, his girlfriend/wife experiences decreased sexual attraction (to him) as her competition anxiety decreases.
in other words, as he's been alpha-beta-tized (as Alpha-Bob becomes beta-bob), his relationship privileges decrease while his responsibilities increase.
it is in a female's best interests to secure a stable commitment, while it is in a male's best interests to avoid the stable path.
conventional relationship progression is a lose-lose proposition, for most men.

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