b121 (11.28-2.2024): inter-independent

inter-independence [i]
by inte r. independent

inter-independence
how can i help you…
to need (uh) less of me…
to need me less (it’s true!)
 
don’t need no declaration when your will is to be free
inter-independence
it’s you and me for wIe
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·       the idea of inter-independence (it’s not a word, yet) runs contrary to conventional, u.s.a. relationship whiz-dumb.

·       inter-independence is a movement toward Unconditional Love.
·       inter-independence wants the beloved to live his/her best life! (without my approval/disapproval!)
·       inter-independence is a mutual process (motivated by Love) to help your beloved… uh… need you... uh... less!

yes, i know...

·       mothers have been practicing this (with children) for eons, as the child needs less:
   o   breastfeeding,
   o   support (e.g. walking),
   o   potty training,
   o   assistance in dressing, grooming, and be-ing.
·       mothers understand inter-independence, and the unconditional nature of a love that not only hopes for  – but fosters a less-dependent child.
 
for me, inter-independence (as a couple) would mean that we would help each other become less dependent upon each other, which might (or might not) open-up the possibility of loving each other more.                                   
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[i] martino, j. (11.28-1.2024). inter-independence. book 121: opportunity (on deck). © 2024 by j. martino.