b120 (11.1-1.2024): the REAL art of seduction

the REAL art of seduction [i]
by s. e. duction

separate/shared realities
see you as your best
co-create the vision
shared reality-quest
 
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1.     the real art of seduction is to really, really see the other as they wish to be seen, and
2.     once seen in this way, allow them to see themselves in the co-created seduction situation.
 
as a male (In the sexual marketplace), this means seeing a woman as beautiful, smart, witty, pure, or whatever she most wants to be seen as… and then allowing that to be part of the connection.
 
this is phase 1: wow!
 
once that is established, establish phase 2: ignore. take it (the wow) away.  repeat phases 1&2.  this is the play phase (wow-ignore) where intimacy can be introduced (or hinted at).  By the way, she is already an expert at this, and it is known as (1) flirt and (2) play-hard-to-get.
 
phase 3: separate & segregate. get alone-together.  look for romantic signals, and, when sexual attraction is confirmed…
 
phase 4: take the shot.  Touch.  Massage.  Kiss.  Pet.
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[i] martino, j. (11.1-1.2024). the REAL art of seduction. book 120: i saw it on television! © 2024 by j. martino.