Tuesday, March 4, 2025

b123 (3.4-1.2025): how a man wants to be loved...

 
how a man wants to be loved by a woman [i]
by aman mann   
 
how i want her to love me
the way it all would end
i want her to love me (as if)
if she my best friend
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·       which is precisely why i opt for the beginning phase of female-relationships.
 
·       in the beginning, she’s your hot lover and best friend:
  o   great sex, anywhere, anytime.
  o   fun!
  o   shares the costs.
  o   is into the ballgame; likes your friends/family.
  o   needs very little to be happy.
  o   freely gives space, freedom.
  o   wants you to be happy.
 
·       event-u-ally, with time:
  o   the sexual initiation subsides considerably (if not totally).
  o   fun… is replaced by displeasure… and wants… and needs… and demands.
  o   man is spelled ‘atm’ (for her kids, too!).
  o   despises the ballgame; hates your friends; puts-up with your family.
  o   is never happy for long, due to endless unmet needs, wants, desires.
  o   restricts your freedom; punishes your desires.
  o   is repulsed by your happiness, ease, manliness.
 
a man who has woken-up to this will not enter a conventional u.s.a. marriage/commitment, as it would be the end of his life (as he knew it).
 
granted, this may not apply to all women, but, since most are sooooooo good at game, the vetting-process needs to be extended, indefinitely.  if you aren’t 100% sure that she is different, slooooow the pace down.
 
anyone who wants you to “buy now” is suspect.
-jm
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[i] martino, j. (3.4-1.2025). how a man wants to be loved by a woman. book 123: i don’t even care. © 2024 by j. martino.

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