gentlemen: do you want to have the best o's with the hottest gals that you can imagine? do you want NO relationship complications, NO drama, NO overpriced diamond ring challenges, NO marriage issues, NO arguments, NO bitching, NO risk, NO dis-of-ease, NO crying, NO jealousy issues (that matter), NO rejection, and minimal cost, investment, time, worry, etc., etc., etc., etc.???
use video, lubricant, and a device that will get you the o's you want.
still flirt (with real women), but never pursue. when they pursue you, simply decide whether a romantic encounter (or three) will be worth your while. set the parameters of the physical relationship to your terms, and settle for nothing less than mutual agreement.
you will end up with a release of pressure, more time, more fun & flirtation, less risk, better friendships, better relationships, and (most likely) more & better sex from a higher-quality variety of real women!