hot cold hot cold hot cold [i]
hot cold hot cold hot cold
cold hot cold hot cold hot
relationships get old
attractive (you are not)
you realize the goods you bought are not what you were sold
“i love you/hate you” (headache)
______________________________
· yes, she loves you (in the beginning), but… as she is allowed to alpha-beta-tize you, her attraction (and love) for you wanes -- toward the wanes (and bobs, and joes, and jimmys).
· you (at this point) experience the proverbial hot cold hot cold hot cold… but it is confusing (because it is happening amid sooooo many other circumstances).
· you don’t realize that by being who she wanted you to be: committed, predictable, available, tamed, etc., you’ve sealed your own fate (and you are no longer the man that she fell in love with).
the sad news is that you did it to yourself – because you simply didn’t have the tools to understand the alpha-beta-tization process.
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[i] martino, j. (1.2-1.2025). hot cold hot cold hot cold. book 121: opportunity (on deck). © 2024 by j. martino.
hot cold hot cold hot cold
cold hot cold hot cold hot
relationships get old
attractive (you are not)
you realize the goods you bought are not what you were sold
“i love you/hate you” (headache)
______________________________
· yes, she loves you (in the beginning), but… as she is allowed to alpha-beta-tize you, her attraction (and love) for you wanes -- toward the wanes (and bobs, and joes, and jimmys).
· you (at this point) experience the proverbial hot cold hot cold hot cold… but it is confusing (because it is happening amid sooooo many other circumstances).
· you don’t realize that by being who she wanted you to be: committed, predictable, available, tamed, etc., you’ve sealed your own fate (and you are no longer the man that she fell in love with).
the sad news is that you did it to yourself – because you simply didn’t have the tools to understand the alpha-beta-tization process.
___________________________________
[i] martino, j. (1.2-1.2025). hot cold hot cold hot cold. book 121: opportunity (on deck). © 2024 by j. martino.
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