the forgiveness process is akin to the re-Cognition that we are the process. the re-Cognition that, at the Level of G∞d, there is no definitive good or bad.
there is only the Is, Is-ing (Be-ing), and wIe (do-Be-doing):
Dancing/Singing!
event-u-ally, the process re-veals that even our doings -- are just the Is, Being. each molecule & atom in a grain of sand on the beach Is the grain, Is the beach, Is the earth, Is the Uni-Verse, and Is the Mega-Verse.
the One, One-ing.
of course, to get a glimpse of thIs is to immediately for-give ourselves of all worry, all fear, and all feelings of separation/unworthiness.
the 'death' of the ego is more like a re-turn-ing into One.
there is nothing to do but Be y/our own
star...
in y/our own, conscious Play,
Play-ing.
Play-ing.
so, get lost in the role or re-cognize the illusion or ad-lib or watch (off-stage) or co-star or direct or do all of it at ONCE.
wIe cannot but for-Give.