sex… is more than just reproduction. for humans, sex can be a form of communication, a release of pressure, a stress reduction practice, fun, a means of connection, a dance, erotic, etc.
in 2024, however, sexual release and experience can be simulated (both mentally and physically) via digital means and/or devices.
men and women no longer need each other. he can get-off quite easily (without the complications of a relationship) and she can sleep comfortably, with her dog in the bed.
no worries about pregnancy, break-ups, arguments, etc.
what does sex mean (for me) in the future?
i’m not sure. i’ll certainly enjoy it whenever/wherever and with whomever… depending upon the circumstances. if i connect with a cool gal who i’m able to vet slowly, i may even enter a committed relationship again. it isn’t necessary, however.
do i want a girlfriend? yes and no.
i like the idea of sharing my experiences, i like the idea of great sex, and i like the idea of great communication & connection. on the other hand, i like the idea of variety. i like to have options. i don’t like feeling obligated. i don’t want to feel responsible for someone else’s feelings. i like fun.
as an older man, i’ll continue to meet people, and i’ll continue to flirt with women, and i’ll make decisions about the options that i have int the future. it’s a no pressure situation. i see it as all positives.
one thing is for sure: i’m not going to live my life with a roommate (who i occasionally attempt to seduce) who has the power of not only saying “no”, but who also has the right to forbid me from experiencing sex elsewhere (including in my mind).
[i] martino, j. (9.1-1.2024). are human/romantic relationships going extinct? book 119: turn-about (fair play). © 2024 by j. martino.
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