Monday, August 18, 2025

b127 (8.18-2.2025): "pass the salt"

“pass the salt”
by p. assed participant
 
another sad reception
another good one, down
another chance for friends and family to gather-round

another chance to say “too soon” (when life comes to a halt)
another toast “who loved him most?”
another:
 

“pass the salt”
____________________
 
·       be-cause when you’re gone… people still gotta eat.
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martino, j. (8.18-2.2025). “pass the salt.” book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us 

b127 (8.18-1.2025): in-Joy her while you can!

in-joy her while you can
by joy i. n. joy
 
enjoy her* while you can
the play-full kiss of spring
the dance of life (pre-fall**)
the choice that freedom brings
 
the gentle breeze, the crystal stream, the one-and-only fan***
 
you’ve got this fleeting moment
in-joy her (while you can!)
____________________
 
·       Be-Cause this moment is only Here, Now.  everything else is an illusion of the past and a projection of the future.
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martino, j. (8.18-1.2025). in-joy her while you can! book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us
 
* the original word was ‘it’ …not ‘her’.
** 'pre-fall' is the time for hummingbird frenzies (in north carolina).
*** the original phrase was “the footprints in the sand.” 

Sunday, August 17, 2025

* prior to the robotic police state

 stardate 8.17.2025: freedom

everything about this trip has been easy.  freedom (in 2025) is amazing... compared to that which is on the forefront.  the uber to CLT, the breakfast-beer at the airport, the wifi, the flight on american airlines, the enterprise car rental, and the gps to constantino's & the venda bar.


the codes let me in to my amazing 2-bedroom villa, overlooking the fountain and restaurante' area.  air conditioning, easy wifi, fridge, a bed with great pillows, and a super shower.





wednesday, 13th: the afternoon was fun, with kevin & steve arriving at the venda bar for pizza & beer, and hanging-out at steve's place before getting john and going to dave's for dinner.  a gool ol' family time.

thursday, 14th: i walked atwells avenue (coffee at roma) prior to visiting classical high school and getting a tour.  great memories.

around noon, i picked john up and we went for a walk at lincoln woods, prior to hanging at steve's.  hazy little thing was involved.

then, i made my way back to constantino's for the classical re-union of friends. lori, joyce, susan, diane, ed, frank, greg.  kevin brought my bailey's, and lori brought me home-made wine.  diane was the consummate hostess.  ed put everything on his tab and threw our money back at us when we attempted to contribute.  classic!

friday, 15th: the martha's vinyard trip fell through, and i went to jamestown.  walked the streets, visited sharon at the secret garden, and took the 'ferry' to newport.  loved it.  walked, sipped a couple, and jousted with steve about the change in plans.  upon returning to jamestown, i re-visted jb's and was seated outside, facing the bay.  i had overpriced chowduhhh, overpriced rice, overpriced blackened shrimp salad and an overpriced bottle of zin.  i loved every overpriced second of it, and gave my (usual) overpriced tip.  then i went to beavertail.













friday night was a venda bar night, and i sat with diane and her husband (al) and had a nice time.

saturday,16th: the day was filled with a lenny party (coffee on the street at constantino's, an italian veggie grinder, and people watching).  at the room the day became one of writing, and then a walk downtown -- and photos of the memory lane stuff.  






i returned to hang-out for satruday night at the venda bar, with a nice seat -- watching a band that played quite a bit of country.  i hung-out with waiter joey (who spoke about his girfriend, travels, hope & dreams).  i ended-up getting a pizza and had another full night's sleep in the wonderful king-sized bed in room 7.

sunday, 17th: this will be the day of our family get-together.  my plan is to have a make-up beer with steve at 11 prior to being a great sibling -- hopefully all afternoon.  0851: got an email from steve, and we are in make-up/communication/forgiveness/understanding mode.  he's a great brother.

monday, 18th: i'll have breakfast with ed & frank, and will visit URI and the beaches, and come back & pack for an early morning takeoff PVD-CLT. 






------------------my (optimistic) prediction of the near & distant future---------------------- 

robot cops & robot-dog cops will patrol the hill.  they will keep the peace at the price of freedom.  cameras will not only record everything you do and say, but that information will be banked with the rest of your clicks and likes and purchases and thoughts.

those who buck the system will disappear (and death would be better then the many, many alternatives).  the idea of getting into a car and going to the beach will be long gone, but the experience of a perfect beach will be available in a headset that projects a reality more real than anything we've ever known.

jobs will be gone.  wealth inequality will increase exponentially, as will the gap between humans and artificial intelligence.  i will be closing-in on 70 years old, and it will be time to either (a) marry lori, or (b) hide-out in palwan, phillipines.  

bullshit.  there will be no place to hide.

all that i'll have, really, is memories and gratitude... which is (really) exactly what i have now.

:) 

-the end. 

Saturday, August 16, 2025

b127 (8.17-1.2025): what is a good man?

what is a good man?
by a. goodman
 
what is a good man?
it seems we need a few
to fall & die (in battle), well, as if we only knew
 
to live within a code that only some can understand
to do that which they want you to, well:

what is a good man?
____________________ 

(a dude who needs a fan?)
 
·     worker-bee?
·       soldier?
·       protector?
·       provider?
·       athlete?
·       graduate?
·       husband?
·       father?
·       everything that they tell you you’re supposed to be?
 
or… is a good man a man who has made mistakes, 
has learned, has grown, and (now) 
lives life on his own?
 
allow me to also postulate that a good man/woman is one who helps others not make the mistakes that she/he has made.
____________________
martino, j. (8.17-1.2025). what is a good man? book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us 

* a few good men (trailer):



* men are not 'afraid' of women

men are, however, not approaching women (romantically).  

why?

because men have seen that any woman can say anything about any man from any time... and he will be the one to be immediately presumed 'bad'.  worse yet, his reputation will be shattered for life.

that's why men have trepidations.  

it (2025) is actually a very good time to be a young woman.  i'm happy for them.  if i was a young woman, i'd probably do what most young men & women would do (given the opportunity): milk it for all that it is worth.

gentlemen: unless you are in top 10% (the men who get approached by women), you should seriously consider virtual, robotic, etc. love.

alternative title: the tables have turned

b127 (8.16-2.2025): 'testosterone' means 'prowl'

‘testosterone’ means ‘prowl’
by a. prowler
 
alternative titles:
testosteronic prowl
on the prowl
testosteronic ways
testosteronic gaze
 


testosteronic ways
testosteronic prowl
testosteronic gaze
testosteronic growl
____________________
 
·       hanging out in little italy has been fantastical: the outfits, the dialect, the machisimo, the seductive, the music, the vibe…
 
outside, on atwells avenue, i sipped coffee with bailey’s (under an umbrella, at constantino’s). 
 
then i ordered a sausage & peppers grinder that paired perfectly with chicken all venda and yesterday’s plungerhead old vine zinfandel from jb’s in jamestown, rhode island.
 
if my world ends today, i will smile and toast to the crowd… and the mushroom-cloud.
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martino, j. (8.16-2.2025). on the prowl. book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us
 
*testosterone is the replication and “survival of the species” hormone… especially when paired-with a monthly cycle of estrogen.  we poo-poo the predator, the prowler, the human-cat hunter (if it’s a male).  the female predator, however (revered and celebrated), is much, much more lethal.  get used to it, boys.
 
she’s in the tight/slight blue-green outfit, no underwear, and walking through the restaurante’/ bistro as if she doesn’t have a clue – that she – is seducing you-know-who...

you

b127 (8.16-1.2025): mejor estas sin nada

mejor estas sin nada
by happie r. w. ithout
 
alternative title: you're better-off alone

you’re better-off with nothing than indifference (it’s true)
you’re better-off alone (if she’s indifferent to you)
____________________
 
·       the only acceptable trait is “burning desire.”  anything else is a waste of my time.

dudes: you are better-off alone.
:)

what to do?  work on you.  find someone who has burning desire for you.  better yet, become the man whose life results in her finding you
____________________
martino, j. (8.16-1.2025). better off with nothing. book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us 

Friday, August 15, 2025

b127 (8.15-1.2025): how can i know Love?

how can i know Love?
by a. lover
 
how can i know Love?
how can i find the way?
how can i never mind the time that often slips away?
____________________
 
·       the way to know Love, Peace, Joy, Connection… is to express it.

·       the way to experience Eternity is to Be In It, Now.
____________________
martino, j. (8.15-1.2025). how can i know Love? book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us

Thursday, August 14, 2025

b127 (8.14-1.2025): remember us [back then]

remember us (back then)
by m. e. mories
 
remember when we smiled
remember when we danced
remember when we kissed
remember when (romance)
 
remember (oh, the innocence!) the picnic under tree
remember us (back then, again)
remember you and wIe
____________________
 
·       wIe: the ego-ic selves who (be-ing separate) seek Union... and the Oneness that is able to experience It-self as differentiality.
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martino, j. (8.14-1.2025). remember us (back then). book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us 

Wednesday, August 13, 2025

b127 (8.13-2.2025): when queen & king are pawns

when queen & king are pawns

by a. king, a. queen & a. pawn
 
when queen & king are pawns
when day turns into knight
when bishops pray that (come what may) that God might make it right

when rookies are in charge
when threats just make us yawn
when knight becomes the way, today
when king & queen are pawns
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·       because military protocols and human ego…. combined with automated, artificial decision-makers inevitably result in a disastrous stew of “who knew?”
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martino, j. (8.13-2.2025). when king & queen are pawns. book 127: compare & contrast. © 2025 by wellnesseducation.us