Friday, January 13, 2023

* rest in peace, sweet josie

josephine martineau (femino)
a.k.a. momgrandma, "josephine!!", jojosie, and on and on...
2.26.1931 - 1.11.2013
my goal, below, is to highlight some josi-themes, to bring back a few memories:



right: fun, play, Spirit!
above: smiles

below: multi-dimensional




right: anniversary celebrations









below: touch (arms around each other)
below: birthday celebrations



below: this is my family (i wonder/worry about their sanity)

arms around each other
 
below: with family/friends

above and below: arms around each other
.

kids: if you are a martineau or a femino, it's all about the kids
below: arms around each other

family, weddings, kids

above-left and below: dancing (jo LOVED dancing with al)

.
 above: family

below: arms around each other
above: adventure (and stability)

below: this is my family (i worry about their sanity)


this is our family (i worry about our sanity)
family
family

below: children
holding hands

celebrations!

above: children, grandchildren, great grandchildren

below: "the gift exchange"
familyreligionSpirit
 

left, and below:
momma's boy (always was, always will be)
hasta luego's (never goodbyes)

above: arms around each other

 below: kids, fun, arms around each other
  .

.
 


above: fun/play
right: family, at the gift exchange
below: family, children
 





left: children, grand-children, great grandchildren
 
above: gift exchange
below: this is the martineau family (i truly wonder about their sanity) 
 
 
 

above: children

left: the gift exchange

below: children, family
 



left: family
 
 
above: arms around each other

left: family













below: fun, adventure
 
above and below: celebration
 




left and below:  
family, travel, adventure





left and below:
family
above: celebration
--------------------
below: adventure
below: family
 
above left and below: family

 
 
along with 'celebration', we must not forget a trademark josphine trait:
the offering of food:

if pushing food was illegal, josie would have spent her entire adult life in jail.

 

above: family celebration (i worry about our sanity)

below: family (inside joke) mr. and mrs. alien martiano




right: not driving








below: family

above and below: arms around each other; dancing

below: church/religion, Spirit


below: arms around each other, family
.


left: family, fun, pictures/memories
above and left: celebrations
below: kids (kids who are quickly becoming men)
 
above and below: this is our family (at times, i question our sanity)
.
 
below: Union (one of the beautiful photographs of all time)
 
recurring josi-themes:

family,
smiles, 
 fun, play,  
pictures,
children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren,
Spirit (Union/Connection)
celebrations,
the gift exchange,
the offering of food,
touch (arms around each other),
memories.

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hasta luego, mom.

 

Thursday, January 5, 2023

probabilities

probabilities [i]
by probably s. nowed
 
while the persuasive speakers speak about “the probability of you, being you”* they assume that you are supposed to be you.
 
romantic, of course, but a more realistic viewpoint is that you are you because of a long chain of events that produced you.  if you take the “you” or “me” out of the situation, then we are no longer talking about false, induced “probabilities.” 

once we remove our egos from the equation, we can (unromantically, of course) deduce that we are who we are.  period.  there wasn’t a “chance” of you or i being someone else.  wIe are Be-Cause of our specific chain of events.
 
is a tornado a miracle?  is an ocean wave a miracle?  is a salmon or a cockroach a miracle? 
 
yes.  they all are… if you use the probability theories that make us believe that we are special.
 
ego loves its specialness.
 
if we re-move the ego, then you and i just are.  we didn’t “get lucky”.  we are simply the outcropping of a multidimensional cascade of events that resulted in our ego, believing that it is separate, special, unique (like a snowflake!) and wonderous.
 
this thoem isn’t to say that we aren’t a miracle.  it is to say that those who attempt to get us to believe that we are a 1-in-4 trillion-lucky-break… are romanticizing the issue.
 
truth is, my separation consciousness is.  that is all that one could ever, ever, ever experience.  connection, however, well… that might just be a Knowing. 
_____________________________
[i] martino, j. (1.5-2.2023). probabilities. book 112: happy new year. ©2023 by wellnesseducation.us


b112 (1.5-1.2023): critical condition

critical condition [i]
by fee ling criticized
 
we can talk all day about relationship-rendition
we’ve put this relationship in critical condition
________________________
 
·       just because i’m a little sensitive to criticism doesn’t mean that she can constantly criticize me -- and then double-down on me for feeling criticized.
 
[i] martino, j. (1.5-1.2023). critical condition.  book 112: happy new year. © 2023 by wellnesseducation.us.
[ii] i've seen the double-reverse waaaaaaaay too many times, now (as an integral play in her playbook).  
 
  

critical condition

critical condition [i]
by fee ling criticized
 
we can talk all day about relationship-rendition
we’ve put this relationship in critical condition
________________________
 
·       just because i’m a little sensitive to criticism doesn’t mean that you can constantly criticize me -- and then double-down on me for feeling criticized.
_______________________
[i] martino, j. (1.5-1.2023). critical condition.  book 112: happy new year. © 2023 by wellnesseducation.us. 
 
  

Wednesday, January 4, 2023

new year weight loss goals

new year weight-loss goals [i]
by ima. goal settah
 
i’ve done this before
it never gets old
maybe i’m just bored, with
my new year’s weight-loss goals
________________________
 
·       be-cause here’s the truth: if i really, really, really wanted to do it, it would already have been done!

·       new year’s resolutions help us feel good (when declared) and make us feel like failures as the year shows – that promises are like flickers in the night.
 
they… don’t have a chance (in-sight)…
once reality shines her true light.
😊


[i] martino, j. (1.4-4.2023). new year weight-loss goals.  book 112: happy new year. © 2023 by wellnesseducation.us. 

 

  

we love bullsh-t stories

we love bullsh-t stories [i]
by ima story tellah
 
we love bullsh-t stories
my-stories and rhymes
we love bullsh-t stories
those like yours and mine
________________________
 
·       you-mans, Be-ing (uh, us) looooooove stories.  we read, we write, we listen, and we believe in that which resonates.

·       it doesn’t matter (at all) if the stories are true or valid or reliable or reasonable
·       ...the only thing that matters is that we believe.

·       even when we are given proof that our beliefs are ignoramically ignoramic, we still believe!
 
somebody should study humans.
we are (uh) fun.
😊
 
[i] martino, j. (1.4-3.2023). we love bullsh-t stories.  book 112: happy new year. © 2023 by wellnesseducation.us. 
 

  

assimilation/elimination

assim e. limination [i]
by assim. e. limilation
 
assim e. limination
assimilation, meme

s/he came unto elation in the middle of a dream
s/he had an intake yearning and elimination streams

asim e. limination:
as One (or both) it seems
________________________
 
·       Be-Cause to assimilate is to take-in, whereas elimination is to excrete, or re-move.

·       in this thoem, assim is a fusion of assimilation and elimination – a whole system; a One; a closed circuit; a ying/yang experience.

·       s/he embodies the flow, the Union, the connection, the symbiosis, the Love, and the Holistic nature of relative oppositicality.
 
a natural practicality.
 
S/he is (both) the male and the female…
the inspiration and the expiration…
 the arteries and the veins…
the dark and the light…
as s/he ebbs and flows like the tides…

 of day and night.


[i] martino, j. (1.4-2.2023). assim elimination.  book 112: happy new year. © 2023 by wellnesseducation.us. 
 

 

b112 (1/4/2023): new year (weight loss goals)

new year weight-loss goals [i]
by ima. goal settah
 
i’ve done this before
it never gets old
maybe i’m just bored, with
my new year’s weight-loss goals
________________________
 
·       be-cause here’s the truth: if i really, really, really wanted to do it, it would already have been done!

·       new year’s resolutions help us feel good (when declared) and make us feel like failures as the year shows – that promises are like flickers in the night.
 
they… don’t have a chance (in-sight)…
once reality shines her true light.
😊


[i] martino, j. (1.4-4.2023). new year weight-loss goals.  book 112: happy new year© 2023 by joal martino.