b27 (2.5.2004): the reason why ego is insane

the reason why ego is insane [1]
 
ego harbors two, deep fears:

 1. the fear of being alone, and separate from the All (Love)
2. the fear of being One, with the All
 
naturally, ego-fear acts-out an apparent horror story of a drama.

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• one of the biggest fears of human beings is the fear of being alone.  aloneness is contradictory to the Law of Attraction.  observe nature, and See for yourself: like likes like, and like things gather together.  dr. john gray says that the biggest fear of a human being is the fear of being unworthy – unworthy of love.  if we are unworthy of love, then we fear that we’ll end up alone.

 

• if you want to control someone, break down his self esteem and “make” (help) him feel unworthy (criticize).  when his self-esteem is broken, he will do anything to get your tiny scraps of recognition that he is the least bit okay.  the problem is that you will both be miserable throughout the process.  he will feel controlled, and you will not ever be able to know his Love, since you get his adoration from his fear.

 

• if you want to Free someone, build up his self-esteem and help him feel worthy.  he will feel your Love, he will Know Love, and he will be able to express his Love.  you, simultaneously will Know the Love that you are expressing toward him, and, in Knowing your Love, you experience Love.   

 

• note: Love is experienced as an inner process, via giving it.  at a High Level of resonance, receiving Love is another way to give Love, since, by receiving, we are allowing someone else to express his Love.

 

• ego resists Love, or Oneness, because ego fears that he (separation) will cease and die if he re-Members with Love.  my (personal) take is that this is the original sin/mistake, the one that allows us to play in this movie-drama-theater and to get the feeling that this experience is a Real one.  my (personal) belief is that, when we re-Member Oneness, we’ll be able to See ego and thank ego for the ticket to the show, Knowing that, in Reality, ego is “perspective” which is a-part of the Whole One.  True “movement away” from God/All is impossible, since God is All that there is!  the experience of ego, “moving away” is Really the experience of God, expanding into that which wasn’t God prior to the expansion.

 

• btw: criticism is just another form of fear, defending.  it is an attack/defense based wholly upon fear.

 
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[1] martineau, l. (2.5.2004). the reason why ego is insane. book 27: miss u. © 2004 & 2025 by wellnesseducation.us