my vision [1]
by leonard p. martineau
if i ever feel “wronged” by you, i will make every attempt to empathize by “putting myself in your shoes” and understanding why you may have said or done something that hurt me. i will understand that every individual has been through difficult times, and that different people respond to life in different ways.
by leonard p. martineau
if i ever feel “wronged” by you, i will make every attempt to empathize by “putting myself in your shoes” and understanding why you may have said or done something that hurt me. i will understand that every individual has been through difficult times, and that different people respond to life in different ways.
i will refrain from speaking about you, when you are not present
(except when i am praising you).
i will respect any potential power differentials in our relationship, and i will refrain from using that power differential to “take advantage” of a situation. at the same time, i will understand if you make mistakes within the power differential “dance.” we can talk it out. we can for-give.
i will respect any potential power differentials in our relationship, and i will refrain from using that power differential to “take advantage” of a situation. at the same time, i will understand if you make mistakes within the power differential “dance.” we can talk it out. we can for-give.
i will refrain from digging up your past, especially past mistakes that
you may or may not have made. i’d rather
focus on your beautiful present and your bright future.
You… Are… Okay.
wIe...are okay.
(worthy of Love)
if conflict arises, i will make every attempt to calmly listen to your side of the situation, without “confessing your sins” to others. i believe that we can get along in a loving manner.
i will make every attempt to See the Love in You, by Seeing Beyond the illusion of our dualistic differences.
if i get caught up in the drama of our duality, i will (as soon as i re-Cognize it) re-Member that You and i are intricately Connected as symbiotic parts of a Complete Whole.
[1] martineau, l. (8.14-3.2007). my vision of For-Give-ness. book 54: do you deliver? copyright 2025 by wellnesseducation.us.



